So in my last I finished the post by talking about how you are an individual, but along with being an individual you have people who know what you go through. Well, this post is to introduce you to the fact that you are special, and amazing. No matter if your only skills is that you can put your feet behind your head. That is still something that you can do that no one else can(I can't). So have some pride in the fact that your feet can be set behind your head without real effort. It is hard to fit in with a crowd that is completely different in every way you can imagine. It is hard to fit in with people who are mean to others, because they are most likely going to be mean to you.
So, if it is so hard, why waste any of your time and energy? So if it is so hard, why not relax and be yourself? I, myself, love weird people. I love them because I am weird. I never stop being weird and I never stop being me. I find that if people don't want to be around you, so be it. They have yet to find that they are pretty weird themselves.
If your are doing certain things (disgusting things) in public. Pleased do not be confused as to why people would not like to sit next to you on the bus, especially if you happen to think picking your nose in front of others is a good idea. The moral of the story is always be kind, polite, and yourself.
Go write somebody's else happiness!<3
Okay so this is a pretty broad topic that I feel the need to address today, but sometimes I get the feeling that people do not know how to properly define the word "bully".
A bully is not someone who constantly turns off your computer when you are using it, nor are they a person who purposefully bumps into you when your walking. They are any person that is trying to cause harm in an effort to seem better than you.
Contrary to popular belief:
There are NO signs of a true-blue bully. There is nothing in a person's behavior that will show you that they will grow up to give some poor person issues. There is nothing in a person's past that will show you how they will treat others in the future. There is nothing because everybody's different. There is no way because nobody thinks/reacts in the exact same manner. We, at very young ages, are groomed to believe that we are all individuals, and we are. But still with all that variety there is always another person who thinks like you, who believes in the same miracles, who loved the pleasure of childhood, and who couldn't stand it. And if all this is true, then the same must be for those who are bullied, its happened to another and they understand how you feel.
Okay, I'm sure with all of the other blogs your reading that they are talking about Christmas, and if they are not then who cares! Just kidding, I care.
Anyhow, this is not what you think it is. This is not a post telling you to go somewhere and relax throughout the Christmas Crazy. This is not a post about how everyone else is insane, and your the only one who retained any normalcy during this holiday season(no matter how true/untrue that may be). Instead, this post will be about remaining patient with those who clearly need it more than others.
I know for certain that I need this more than others at times. My sisters knows the exact why to push my buttons. She knows exactly how to make me lose my cool, cool that I spent forever developing. So, I have decided that I won't take her crazy, but instead I will make sure she knows that certain things you just cannot do. This is includes trashing random people that do not really deserve it. Maybe one day she'll understand what I am saying to her.
So go out there and expect the best from everyone.