So, genius guy, once said "A work ill done, must be done twice.", and oh man wasn't he right! That is our focus, if you try your hardest the first time chances are there doesn't have to be a second time. 
This would reflect well on everyone, bur mistly the person who made it possible, little old you. So, cross your "t"s and dot your "i"s, because it is completely possible to be the best. But only the best YOU can be. Where will you take you?
 
 
First, yes because I posted this today, I will not be posting anything tomorrow. Also the subject matter of this post is maybe unsuitable for those weak of heart. You can either watch the video or read my response. Or both! Love you all! Enjoy.
Alright, so if you did not want to view the video, it was about two high school boys who decided to rape a girl at a party(filled with drugs and alcohol), this girl had, unfortunately, drunken herself into a stupor. The boys then raped her and took video of it. According to the pieces of the video, it was funny enough to make rape jokes about. Hysterical even. 
Clearly, I do not think that this is even remotely funny. Especially considering no disciplinary action was taken against these boys. NONE. In fact, certain ADULTS insinuated it was her fault. Now, I will say that it was more than inappropriate to even drink at such a party. But like EVERY other teen known, she made a mistake. A mistake that should have NOT cost her that. 
I have seen many stories like this where a woman has gotten raped and immediately the general consensus is "Her fault." "She had to have done SOMETHING to instigate such treatment." 
Why is it that we have to find something guilty about those who were wronged? Wearing short clothing, as gross as it sometimes is, is not someone asking for sex. Dressing in formless shifts, at that point could also be considered asking for it.
It should not matter what the female wears, but how much you respect not only her, but yourself. Control and a conscience.
Now, females are not only ones who are raped, but they are the only who are "asking for it" in the public eye. Answer me this, who would ask for such a thing?

 
 

What to do? What to do?

So you have a bully and you have no idea what to do. Well, my thoughts are: 1. Tell someone. I know, I know. Its embarrassing. No one wants to admit that someone is causing some issues in your everyday life. But trust me it's important that SOMEBODY knows. 2. Don't stand for it. Sit if you must. You are amazing. Maybe people can't yet see that, so what you don't deserve anything less than the best. You have put in the effort, you should reap the rewards. No one gets to take that from you. 3. Stay the same. "Haters gon hate." and you shouldn't change. You can't please everybody and there is no point in trying. So brighten days, remain(mostly) peaceful, and smile because there are certain things that no one should be able to take from you. 

 
 

Beautiful You

So in my last I finished the post by talking about how you are an individual, but along with being an individual you have people who know what you go through. Well, this post is to introduce you to the fact that you are special, and amazing. No matter if your only skills is that you can put your feet behind your head. That is still something that you can do that no one else can(I can't). So have some pride in the fact that your feet can be set behind your head without real effort. It is hard to fit in with a crowd that is completely different in every way you can imagine. It is hard to fit in with people who are mean to others, because they are most likely going to be mean to you. 
So, if it is so hard, why waste any of your time and energy? So if it is so hard, why not relax and be yourself? I, myself, love weird people. I love them because I am weird. I never stop being weird and I never stop being me. I find that if people don't want to be around you, so be it. They have yet to find that they are pretty weird themselves.
SIDE NOTE:
If your are doing certain things (disgusting things) in public. Pleased do not be confused as to why people would not like to sit next to you on the bus, especially if you happen to think picking your nose in front of others is a good idea. The moral of the story is always be kind, polite, and yourself.

Go write somebody's else happiness!<3
 
 
Okay so this is a pretty broad topic that I feel the need to address today, but sometimes I get the feeling that people do not know how to properly define the word "bully". 
A bully is not someone who constantly turns off your computer when you are using it, nor are they a person who purposefully bumps into you when your walking. They are any person that is trying to cause harm in an effort to seem better than you. 
Contrary to popular belief: 
There are NO signs of a true-blue bully. There is nothing in a person's behavior that will show you that they will grow up to give some poor person issues. There is nothing in a person's past that will show you how they will treat others in the future. There is nothing because everybody's different. There is no way because nobody thinks/reacts in the exact same manner. We, at very young ages, are groomed to believe that we are all individuals, and we are. But still with all that variety there is always another person who thinks like you, who believes in the same miracles, who loved the pleasure of childhood, and who couldn't stand it. And if all this is true, then the same must be for those who are bullied, its happened to another and they understand how you feel.
 
 
Okay, I'm sure with all of the other blogs your reading that they are talking about Christmas, and if they are not then who cares! Just kidding, I care. 
Anyhow, this is not what you think it is. This is not a post telling you to go somewhere and relax throughout the Christmas Crazy. This is not a post about how everyone else is insane, and your the only one who retained any normalcy during this holiday season(no matter how true/untrue that may be). Instead, this post will be about remaining patient with those who clearly need it more than others.
I know for certain that I need this more than others at times. My sisters knows the exact why to push my buttons. She knows exactly how to make me lose my cool, cool that I spent forever developing. So, I have decided that I won't take her crazy, but instead I will make sure she knows that certain things you just cannot do. This is includes trashing random people that do not really deserve it. Maybe one day she'll understand what I am saying to her.
So go out there and expect the best from everyone. 
 
 
Okay, random people of the internet, here is the post of the week!
Giving yourself a break.
Today, I had my first ever swim meet. I was nervous and it was crazy. And to add to the ever increasing pressure one of my swim coaches told me not to breath between the flag and the wall. 5 yards. No breathing. Now don't get me wrong I have swam the whole length of the pool without breathing. I had trouble but I got it done. Now, she is asking me to do a flip turn, under water, without breathing, all the while exerting large amounts of energy. I will tell you now: it is NOT easy to swim not only correctly, but also without flaw, and then you have to go fast?! 
Yea, not exactly a piece of cake. 
Anyhow, I didn't believe that I could do it. Not yet anyway, and I was right. Before I ever dove into that pool, though, I was near tears. Okay, not near tears, I was flat out crying. Not the snot and ugly-faced crying just a few hot tears at random intervals. Anyhow, I was focusing on being as good as I could without drowning. (Note: I have only been swimming a month to everyone else's 16 to three months swimming. Sure, in retrospect three months isn't even much away from one months. But is actually a long time in swim seconds). I was focused on swimming my hardest. I was focused on not getting penalized for any faulty and accidental swimming. I was not focused on relaxing. I was not focused on having fun. I couldn't relax until I had enough time to get used to the competition. And do you know what? I came in last. Maybe it was dead last maybe it was really close to the girl next to me I have no idea.
Well, next time I will be better, and I will be prepared. I know I can do this. And next time I will give myself a break and 
 
 
So, your sitting there thinking, "Why am I watching this?" Well, it's simple you see. To truly go for what you want you have to be willing to put yourself out there. Are you ready?
 
 
I watch this video a bit of time ago, and I just want to say, not everybody's like that. I have no idea what state(s) they were in but it certainly was not mine. I could not imagine that an actual adult would have answered some of these questions in the way they did. Other questions I could easily see, as I answered the same way, not only because I am not only still learning, but also I was answering before anyone in the video could. Now, if you happen to be an outraged American, and you want to do something about this... Well, the only thing you should be doing is learning more and simply proving those who think ill of you wrong. 
So from this, take that our schools must improve. End of Story. Love you all, Bye!
P.S.-I hope you got a good laugh, as well! :)

 
 
Tonight I experienced my first game of the illustrious, confusing, and quite dangerous... LASER TAG!! I'll be super truthful here. At first, I did not want to do it – at all. But I knew it couldn't be that bad. So, I resigned myself to my fate and promised that I would try to enjoy myself.

And do you know what happened? I almost made new friends and I truly enjoyed myself. You may or may not know this but good this come to people who truly like to enjoy themselves and try to make the best out of every situation you are thrust into.

Moral of the story: Fun is where you try to find it. I mean sure laser tag might be the worst example ever because its known commonly to be loads and loads of great fun, but whatever. You know my point!

Later Taters!